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Alyssa Kulesa's avatar

Juicy topic! I've always loved the proactive, solution-oriented nature of this community. This could have overlaps in some of the main headers but I'm always thinking about how change lands in our bodies, how we deepen our sense of safety in ourselves, how we move through fear quicker when it arises, how we emotionally regulate to focus on what we want faster, how to reclaim our attention and put it where we want. Some of these things can come through the someone developing the skills already in the list--someone might feel safer once they learn to prepare food for example, but regulation is a skill in and if itself. When I see people shut down and become close minded, fear and safety concerns are usually lurking somewhere nearby.

In a different lane, history often boils down to a (skewed) narrative, so how can we encourage documentation of what is being built that includes multiple perspectives?

I also think in some instances people fall into the trap of playing follow the leader when they are scared to embrace their own fullest expression. Then when a big personality comes along who they resonate with, they end up admiring that someone else is willing to speak their mind. They mistake admiration of a quality/skill and authority, giving up their own authority because they don't want to risk rejection of being fully themselves out in the open. I think certain creative practices or gatherings designed to encourage soul expression help people develop their own sense of self instead of misplacing it in someone else.

Lastly, the words we use hold weight and connotation that is not easily forgotten and given that we have grown up in a very authority/hierarchy focused system at large, how can we create a shared lexicon that helps break some of the spells of language? How can we use language to aid in the process of deconditioning by way of paying attention to the words we use? One example of this is already how you mentioned not using the term "founding father."

As you can probably see, I'm just a tad interested in the dynamics of communication--with ourselves, our bodies, others, and the stories we tell that end up shaping reality and the possibility of a new way forward. 😂

Jim Davidson's avatar

It's a great set of ideas. Some of these ring a chord with me. For example, I am working in Colorado with a group of parents who want to provide homeschool and day school facilities for kids in the 50 mile radius around Nucla where a corrupt town council put a huge cell tower next to the schoolhouse. Also working on a social media platform, Axiom, which uses a system that is impervious to censorship. Secure Perimeter Institute is the name I have been using for teaching communications and privacy and data security. Freedom Renaissance film studios is the working name for a freedom oriented production company based far from Hollywood. Since 2011 I've been actively building mutual aid response teams. Happy to help.

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