How Can We Help Each Other? (Input welcome!)
Making it work, 2. (DN 5.12)
We’ve established that coherence isn’t inherently bad (and can be very good) and that atomization isn’t inherently good (and can be very bad). And we are going to opt for coherence.
Not governance. Not control. Not a state.
Just coherence. A little bit of shared culture and belief. (And some fellow feeling would be nice!)
But how do we achieve such a thing? Ultimately, we won’t be able to cohere around my Substack. We will need a bit more.
Avoiding dependence on ‘leaders’
And speaking of me and my Substack, the thing around which we cohere cannot be me.
Yes, I am the one who is serving as a sherpa, guiding our distributed nation into existence. I suppose that makes me our “recognized founder,” in Balaji Srinivasan’s terminology. But if, 100 years from now, our people are calling me a “founding father,” then we’re doing it wrong. I am but a trustee—steering us towards what we are destined to become.
What we are building here is meant to continue far, far into the future. It is much harder to do that if we allow it to become person-centric. An endeavor that is dependent on a great leader or personality cult usually crashes and burns when that person dies.
Even if that does not happen, there is always the risk of elevating past leaders to the status of saints, as, for example, many American conservatives have done with the Founding Fathers. As a result of this quasi-beatification, the gaze of many conservatives is cast forever backward, to a moment in time now frozen in amber.
Classical liberal thought has advanced significantly in the 250 years since that moment, but many cannot see it. They continue to believe that the Founders’ creation was near-perfect, and that to question it is to question saints. Thus, the freedom movement—of which conservatives are by far the largest subgroup—is itself somewhat mired in amber.
Naturally, people will step up to devote their skill, energy, and wisdom to various tasks at various times, but we will not have any rulers or authorities in the classical sense. Universal principles, a common cause, and a transcendent mission must always be our touchstone and lodestar.
The AHI
I have proposed something unique to help guide us into this future. Not a leader or a central authority, but a humble, think-tank-like organization, which we will call, as a working title, the Alliance for Human Independence (AHI).
We can envision the AHI serving in a variety of capacities, including as
A communications hub to connect our otherwise diasporized people,
A steward of our founding documents,
An ambassador (of a sort) to external entities, whether existing involuntary governments or a future framework of free polities.
It can also study mechanisms for peaceful devolution, foster the gradual replacement of government services with their private analogues, and much more.
Helping each other
We can discuss all this moving forward (and your ideas are always welcome). However, right now I would like to focus our attention on other ways that the AHI may be able to help us to help each other.
So what is it that we need help with? What is it that we want?
Obviously, we want to live in a world of peace, where consent is respected. We want to be free and independent. (Independence, of course, will have to be gradual. We must find ways to distance ourselves from the state, gradually widening the gap over time.) And, naturally, we just want to live good, clean, happy, safe lives.
There are many small things we need to do to achieve these big goals. Let’s start a preliminary conversation about those.
Little by little
Let us assume a slow, steady growth path for both our nation and the AHI. We’re not going to come out of the gates a million strong, and that’s okay. Lots of movements start small and eventually grow to be massive. One of the core traits of our nation is patience.
Thus, we can envision a phased increase in the scope and quality of the help the AHI can provide:
Curating a list of potentially helpful resources.
Recommending a refined list of vetted resources.
Affiliating with partner-providers of resources.
Fostering the development of new resources to address unmet needs.
Take education, for example. We cannot gain greater independence if we keep sending our children to Bismarckian indoctrination facilities … statist cults … public schools.
So, in the early going, we can work together, through swarm intelligence, to develop a list of alternatives. Once the AHI is launched, it can begin curating and aggregating those alternatives.
The AHI can then begin expanding the list, vetting everything in order to make the best recommendations. Resources for homeschooling parents. Select curricula. Homeschooling co-ops. Best practices. Micro-schools. Alternative schools.
Once it has grown to a respectable degree, the AHI can begin partnering with vetted providers, adding affiliation programs to create discounts for our members (and perhaps some revenue for the AHI).
Eventually, the AHI will have reached a degree of strength and prestige that it can begin fostering and facilitating the creation of completely parallel systems.
No matter what its stage of development, the AHI will always seek the input and involvement of members. This is the way.
It might take 100 years, but eventually, the minds and bodies of our children simply won’t be accessible to statists and their shadowy puppet masters any longer. We’ll be fully out. Not through bloody revolution, but through patience, effort, and commitment over time.
Potential resource areas
So, with that phased model in mind, what else can we help each other with? What sorts of things would we want a trustee organization like the AHI to help us with?
Here are a few ideas. Some are mine. Some have been suggested by some of you over the last year. Some are curated from a conversation I had with ChatGPT on the subject. (I know how some feel about AI, but we can take ideas from anywhere, so long as they are helpful to us.)
I have slapped this list together fairly quickly. We can refine and expand it down the road. For now, I want to get your input.
What is missing? What do you like/not like on this list? All thoughts welcome!
Food and water
safety (good/bad products)
freedom (local sourcing networks, farmers, co-ops, buying clubs
self-reliance (gardening and small-scale production
storage and rotation systems
health (cooking skills, bulk prep, nutrition)
less dependence on fragile supply chains.
clean water options (filters, chemicals, containers)
collection (rainwater, laws, etc.)
Education
homeschooling (curricula, unschooling, co-ops, resources, etc.)
microschools
alternative schools/networks
Communication & Social Connection
secure communication tools and discussion spaces
local meetups
connections (business, mutual aid, housing, learning)
maybe a member directory (opt-in and privacy-preserving, of course.)
Mutual aid
ad hoc at first, but eventually we can develop our own mutual aid networks/system
community care: meals, rides, childcare swaps, etc.
emergency protocols
neighbor-to-neighbor help requests
Eventually…?
skills corps: volunteers by specialty
emergency funds
refugee support
firefighting
Privacy & Digital Autonomy (verbatim from ChatGPT)
opSec guides (devices, accounts, compartmentalization)
encrypted comms recommendations + setup help
data minimization checklists (phones, cars, smart home)
anti-surveillance habits (browsing, purchases, travel)
identity protection and reputation hygiene
“exit ramps” from major platforms
Skill development
information on our principles
practical methods for greater independence (privacy/security, finances, etc.)
apprenticeships/mentorship networks
(ChatGPT said “competence is sovereignty,” which is actually pretty good!)
Legal Literacy & Risk Navigation (verbatim from ChatGPT)
country/state-level “how to stay safe” checklists
templates: contracts, leases, waivers, bylaws for voluntary clubs
immigration/residency pathways (comparative)
business formation basics (co-ops, LLCs, trusts)
“know your rights” basics (speech, property, self-defense, due process)
Goal: reduce accidental legal exposure while living independently.
Finance, trade, and currency
advice and guidance (banking, unbanking, diversification, scam-avoidance)
internal/mutual trade, credit, barter networks
currency
Phase 1: discussion of alternatives
Phase 2: vetting and recommendations
Phase 3: partnerships
Phase 4: our own parallel currency and financial system (well down the road)
Security & physical resilience (verbatim from ChatGPT)
Personal safety training resources (situational awareness, de-escalation)
Home hardening basics (locks, lighting, cameras—tradeoffs explained)
Travel security and document redundancy
Disaster readiness (power, water, meds, comms)
Community-level safety coordination (without militias or vigilantism)
Product recommendations
Develop a database
durability
no “smart” appliances
repairability
low-tox/low microplastics
lists: vendors who are ethical privacy-respecting, independent, etc.
vetted/tested products
survival stuff
products sold by our members
products from affiliates/partners
DIY alternatives
Medicine, health, and wellness
resources on insurance, insurance alternatives
resources on health, wellness, dangers
fitness, healthspan, longevity
list of aligned providers (privacy-friendly clinics, cash-pay options, etc.)
list of free-market alternatives to insurance
mental resilience (stress, isolation, meaning)
first-aid training directories
Land and living spaces
land
purchasing
zoning/HOA warning guides
homesteading
locations
construction
off-grid
energy/heat
water
legal guides
arrangements
co-living
intentional communities
urban nodes
remote-work-friendly location guides
Work, Business, & Voluntary Enterprise (verbatim from ChatGPT)
skill exchange marketplace
hiring network (values-aligned employers)
“build a small business” guides
co-op, partnership, and contractor templates
reputation + review systems that protect against fraud without central authority
Art and entertainment
recommendations (quality, freedom-aligned, non-woke, etc.)
showcasing members’ work
supporting members’ work (patronage, crowdfunding)
commissioning cultural products
Events
(not just ideology, but a real social fabric!)
local dinners/potlucks
local member gatherings
regional events, retreats
artistic events
festivals and shared celebrations (develop our own someday?)
annual summits
international events (eventually!)
Research & intelligence (verbatim from ChatGPT)
comparative policy tracking (where independence is easier)
fraud and scam warnings
“state of the world” reports relevant to autonomy
tool comparisons and best practices
lessons learned from member experiments
Goal: situational awareness, not paranoia.
Security, justice, and dispute resolution
voluntary mediation resources
arbitration models (opt-in, contract-based, restorative)
community reputation standards
private security and justice agencies
recommendations
affiliations
foster expansion and development of fully private provision
negotiate with local governments for greater autonomy
help private agencies negotiate with local governments to replace government police/courts with private security and justice (well down the road!)
I could keep going, but I will stop here and let you guys take over. No idea is off limits. Speak your mind!




Juicy topic! I've always loved the proactive, solution-oriented nature of this community. This could have overlaps in some of the main headers but I'm always thinking about how change lands in our bodies, how we deepen our sense of safety in ourselves, how we move through fear quicker when it arises, how we emotionally regulate to focus on what we want faster, how to reclaim our attention and put it where we want. Some of these things can come through the someone developing the skills already in the list--someone might feel safer once they learn to prepare food for example, but regulation is a skill in and if itself. When I see people shut down and become close minded, fear and safety concerns are usually lurking somewhere nearby.
In a different lane, history often boils down to a (skewed) narrative, so how can we encourage documentation of what is being built that includes multiple perspectives?
I also think in some instances people fall into the trap of playing follow the leader when they are scared to embrace their own fullest expression. Then when a big personality comes along who they resonate with, they end up admiring that someone else is willing to speak their mind. They mistake admiration of a quality/skill and authority, giving up their own authority because they don't want to risk rejection of being fully themselves out in the open. I think certain creative practices or gatherings designed to encourage soul expression help people develop their own sense of self instead of misplacing it in someone else.
Lastly, the words we use hold weight and connotation that is not easily forgotten and given that we have grown up in a very authority/hierarchy focused system at large, how can we create a shared lexicon that helps break some of the spells of language? How can we use language to aid in the process of deconditioning by way of paying attention to the words we use? One example of this is already how you mentioned not using the term "founding father."
As you can probably see, I'm just a tad interested in the dynamics of communication--with ourselves, our bodies, others, and the stories we tell that end up shaping reality and the possibility of a new way forward. 😂
It's a great set of ideas. Some of these ring a chord with me. For example, I am working in Colorado with a group of parents who want to provide homeschool and day school facilities for kids in the 50 mile radius around Nucla where a corrupt town council put a huge cell tower next to the schoolhouse. Also working on a social media platform, Axiom, which uses a system that is impervious to censorship. Secure Perimeter Institute is the name I have been using for teaching communications and privacy and data security. Freedom Renaissance film studios is the working name for a freedom oriented production company based far from Hollywood. Since 2011 I've been actively building mutual aid response teams. Happy to help.