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Hat Bailey's avatar

I am the eldest of nine, and most of them I would say have been a positive contribution to the world. I had five of my own, however due to serious mistakes I made early in life I was not able to raise them according to my own values and share whatever wisdom I have been blessed to gain due to the trials and experiences that came to change how I experience the world. A little late in life now to correct that situation, however I do believe we are eternal beings and there will be a time for all that seemed to be lost.

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Being the youngest of a family of 9 kids I decided at a very early age that I had no desire to have children of my own. With 21 nieces and nephews I have always figured my family line was very much intact without any help from me. I knew I wanted to pursue a life of art and I was always pretty solitary and not very attracted to the idea of marriage and kids anyways.

That being said, I take no offense at all to the ideas you are putting forward here, I think they are completely valid. One of the main reasons I didn't pursue marriage and children is because of the deep responsibility and lifetime commitment involved, that is not something I was willing to take on because my commitment was to the creative urge as opposed to the 'procreative urge". That is just me, that was my choice, but I completely respect and admire anyone who is willing to take on the responsibilities of raising a family.

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