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Another excellent, thought-provoking piece!

The topic of how--for better or worse--our comportment reflects not only on ourselves, but on the ideologies with which we are associated reminded me (if only in my tangent-tending mind) of an event from my own life back when I was living in Orange County in southern California.

The O.C. (as no one calls it) is a bit of a beleaguered Red Republican bastion amidst the crashing waves of the Deep Blue Democrat Sea. ("Deepest, bluest, my hat is like a shark's fin♪") I remember when I was losing my Liberal Religion (to borrow a page from Stipe, after all, according to Wokesters, it's the end of the world as we know it, yet I feel fine!) back in the Year of Our Lord 2020 before the election. I'd been spending most of time around bitter, angry Wokesters who were passing the time rioting, shrieking, masking, crying, and generally piling upon Trump's orange visage "the sum of all the general rage and hate felt by his whole race from Adam down," as Melville might've put it. Family fun for everyone.

One day, I was walking down the street to one of the 10,000 beige, Starbuck's-clad strip malls in town, and a pro-Trump car rally was slowly cruising down the road. It was just a bunch of cars and trucks with flags and tacky, Made-in-China, patriotic merch stuck to them. Some were playing music or honking occasionally. They were packed with men and women, people of all ethnicities, and they all looked so friendly and happy.

I smiled and waved at them, and one woman, and Asian lady, leaned out the passenger side of one star-spangled sedan, smiled back at me, and said "God bless you!" as they paraded off. I thought... hmmm, you know, I'm not so sure these are these are the deplorable, evil, hateful, racist, misogynistic, fascist, omniphobes that CNN says they are.

I know this sounds like one of those Adam Kinzinger "My toddler looked up at me with tears in her eyes and asked 'Daddy, why don't Republicans support taxing unrealized capital gains so the billionaires can just pay their fair share?'" stories, but it's actually true.

I also know that this is just one, small experience, and that there plenty of good people and bad people across the political spectrum. I have no doubt people have had similarly positive experiences with other parties' members, and oppositely negative experiences with Trump supporters. And that is my point: you never know who is watching or how many other encounters they may have, so--for better or for worse--we are indeed all always serving as ambassadors for ourselves and our larger associations. So, why not act nobly?

Dave pearen's avatar

There is a great quote a gentleman is only rude on purpose. I think you hit the nail on the head with this piece excellent.

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